WORRIED ABOUT YOUR CHILD STARTING SECONDARY SCHOOL?
You're not alone, and you don't have to figure it out on your own.
Get the free Parent Toolkit designed to help you support your child through this big transition with calm, confidence, and expert-backed tools.
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Quick 15-minute video: “3 Challenges Your Child Will Face and What You Can Do”
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Printable 7-Day Confidence Challenge to build emotional readiness
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Secondary School Readiness Checklist so you know what matters (and what doesn’t)
Hi, I'm Matt Collins: Your Partner for the Secondary School Leap
As a best-selling author and martial arts expert (4th degree black belt in Kickboxing, black belt in Judo and Taekwondo), I’ve spent the last 20 years helping over 20,000 children build confidence, resilience, and independence.
I know what it takes to raise mentally strong kids who can handle life’s challenges, including one of the biggest: starting secondary school.
Why parents trust me:
- Founder of The Samurai Fitness Group — building resilience and confidence in kids aged 4–18 for 20+ years.
- Best-selling author of "Eleven Life Lessons: Empower Your Child to Be Safe and Independent"
- Master-level martial artist with deep expertise in discipline and decision-making
- 20+ years helping children navigate peer pressure, setbacks, and social challenges
At Company of Parents, I’ve taken everything I’ve learned and built a system to help you raise confident, independent pre-teens with tools designed specifically for the transition to secondary school.
No fluff. Just proven strategies that actually work.
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Worried About How Your Child Will Handle Secondary School?
The transition to secondary school is one of the biggest emotional and social shifts your child will face.
And as a parent, you’re likely wondering:
👉 Will they manage peer pressure?
👉 Will they make real friends and stay confident?
👉 Are they ready to cope without you by their side?
You’re not alone. Most parents feel unsure of how to help their child prepare for what's ahead.
You want to protect them and help them grow, but where’s the roadmap?
The good news? With the right tools and strategies, your child can do more than survive this transition;they can thrive in secondary school.
Secondary School Preparation: A Parent's Guide
The 4-module course that turns uncertainty into confidence for both you and your child.
Designed for parents of 10 to 12-year-olds, this program gives you practical strategies to guide your child through the emotional, social, and academic leap into secondary school.
The PREPARE → PROTECT → ACT → SUPPORT System
PREPARE
Shift from “fixing” to coaching. Understand your child’s emotional leap and learn how to support them, like moving from armbands to lifeguard: close by, but not doing the swimming for them.
PROTECT
Create a safety net by using the A.W.A.R.E.S. framework to handle stress, social challenges, and safety concerns, while building a strong sense of security at home and school.
ACT
Put strategies into action by building real confidence through manageable challenges, helping your child navigate friendships, peer pressure, and bullying, using simple practical strategies.
SUPPORT
Help your child grow more independent while staying connected. Use the Trust Bank model and clear boundaries to build trust, safety, and responsibility.
Secondary School Preparation: A Parent's Guide
The practical toolkit for parents of 10 to 12-year-olds navigating the leap to secondary school.
This course transforms worry into confidence by giving you the tools to support your child emotionally, socially, and academically as they face one of their biggest transitions yet.
ONE TIME PAYMENT OF:
£127
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4 clear, research-backed modules: PREPARE, PROTECT, ACT, SUPPORT
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Printable Quick Reference Guides to stick on your fridge or tuck in a schoolbag
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Confidence-building strategies for friendship issues, emotional dips, and digital life
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Step-by-step activities to use with your child at home
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Real scripts, tools and questions to create stronger connection and independence
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Lifetime access so you can revisit any time — no pressure, no rush
Frequently asked questions:
What age group are these courses for?
- The Secondary School Transition Course is designed for parents of children who will be moving into Secondary School within the next few years.
- In England, this would predominantly be students aged 10 to 12 years old.
How long will I have access to the course?
You’ll have lifetime access to the course, including all future updates. This means you can revisit the content whenever you need, whether it’s to refresh your knowledge or adapt strategies as your child grows.
Do I need any specialist knowledge to take these courses?
Not at all! These courses are designed for parents of all backgrounds. We provide easy-to-follow lessons and practical strategies—no prior experience is needed. Just bring your desire to help your child, and we'll guide you every step of the way.
How long will it take to complete each course?
Each course is self-paced, allowing you to progress at a comfortable rate. On average, parents complete the material in about 4 to 6 weeks, depending on their schedule. Plus, you’ll have lifetime access to revisit the content whenever you need it.
Will I be able to ask questions if I get stuck?
Yes! Each course includes access to live Q&A sessions where you can ask questions directly and get personalised guidance. Plus, you’ll join a supportive community of parents who are going through the same process, so you’re never alone.
What if my child is nervous or resistant to change?
That’s completely normal, and the courses are designed with this in mind. You'll learn practical strategies to help your child manage their fears and build excitement for the transition. We provide tools for easing anxiety, boosting confidence, and making the change feel positive and manageable for them.
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